Showing posts with label mental health. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mental health. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Migraines Are a BIG Pain

Yesterday's post dealt with some inspiration to develop our mental health.  So it seems only fitting that I turn the tables a bit today and talk to you all about some literal mental health, i.e., the bane of my existence, MIGRAINES.
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I experienced my first big-time migraine on January 1st, 2009 at a movie theater while watching Slumdog Millionaire with my folks.  One minute I was fine, the next, I felt like someone had turned me upside down and dunked my head underwater.  My orientation was off, my head was whirring, and I could feel a pulsing in my ears that would put Skrillex to shame.

The sensation eventually faded, and gave way to zigzags with the consistency of TV static materializing across my right field of vision.  They expanded until my ability to see anything in my right eye was pretty much gone (appearing almost exactly like this - except mine are black and white).

Those persisted for about 15 minutes before finally tapering, and were immediately replaced with what was easily one of the worst headaches of my entire life.  I was terrified, bewildered, and disoriented.  The entire series of events completely caught me off-guard, and, for a moment, the idea that I might actually have been dying did cross my mind.

Luckily by this point, we were back at my folks' place and my mom was armed with a computer, a pain reliever, and water.  We googled my symptoms and discovered that what was happening to me was a regular occurrence for countless other individuals.

I was experiencing an ocular migraine.
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I have learned a lot since my first bout with migraines that day in 2009, and my knowledge has certainly quelled much of my worry about what is happening inside of my head when they occur.

The sensation of dunking my head under water is referred to by many terms, but I prefer to call it a "head rush."  It's basically a sudden rush of blood to the head.  The subsequent zigzag vision is not only a typical symptom, it even has its own name: a visual aura.  It's dubbed by Wikipedia as being "the most common of the neurological events" (the neurological events, in this case, being the multiple-sensory auras that accompany migraine attacks). The headache, the most notorious aspect of migraine attacks, is the finishing event, just as it is for countless other sufferers.  Doctors are still trying to figure out exactly why migraines happen, but think it may be because of abnormal brain activity - changes in chemicals and nerves in the brain that make the blood-flow up there go off the wall for a little while.

It was reassuring to hear that the internet world was familiar with my type of migraine.  However, as time progressed, the attacks began to increase in frequency, and I knew I had to see a doctor for my own sanity. Together, we discussed my situation, and ways to better it.

It always surprises me to meet others who are suffering from the same or similar health issues that I have.  It's comforting to know that no matter how strange I think my body is acting, there are others going through the same thing who are probably worrying as much as I am. In fact, according to Migraine.com, 13% of U.S. adults suffer from migraines. That means, chances are more likely than not that I'm not the only one on this blog right now who suffers from migraines.

In an effort to help you or anyone you know who have to deal with these mental nuisances, I've put together a list of my tips and strategies for curbing migraine issues:

#1: Figure out your triggers. Migraines have a whole range of triggers, and knowing what causes them for you can mitigate the frequency of the attacks. When I first started to get a lot of them, I kept a migraine diary to find out what types of things I was doing/eating/drinking correlated with my attacks.  I quickly learned that one of my biggest triggers is dehydration (ahhh, now my love for water makes sense!).  I also have found that I have attacks more frequently when I drink red wine (and so, among other reasons, I subsequently stick to white only), or when I'm put into a situation with flashing/strobe lights.  I went to a Girl Talk concert at the 9:30 Club (watch at your own risk) last winter, and like clockwork, eight hours later, boom, ocular migraine.  Even certain iPhone games with flashing lights have triggered migraines for me!  I've learned to avoid these triggers, because the correlation seems to be direct.  However, sometimes, triggers aren't something I can consciously prevent - stuff like hormones, stress, or even changes in barometric pressure. This is one of the main reasons why I believe points #2 and #3 are of the utmost importance.
#2:  Listen to your body.  I have realized that my head rushes and visual auras are more of a blessing than a curse, because they are very tangible warning signs that a Headache from Hell is en route.  Sometimes, unfortunately, the warning signs aren't as blatant - you may start to feel a little lightheaded, smell something that isn't there, or get a ringing in your ears.  If you're having trouble with migraines, pay attention to how you were feeling right before the headache began.  A lot of the time, even if it's subtle, your body will send some cues your way, so that you can be ready to put point #3 into effect.
#3:  When a migraine hits, have an action plan prepared.  I carry Excedrin with me everywhere, since it's the only non-prescription pain reliever that works for me (and when I say "works," I mean it mitigates it, not gets rid of it completely).  I down a glass of water and pop an Excedrin the second I feel the head rush sensation. If I'm at work when it happens, I put on relaxing, soft music and dim the brightness on my computer screen.  If I'm home, I know it's time to lie down and try to take a nap before the headache settles in.  I have a friend and fellow migraine-sufferer who swears by downing a can of regular Coke and popping an Excedrin the second the warning signs appear.  Searching the internet, I have found a plethora of different ways people cope with their migraines.  It's a personal course of action, and sometimes it can be a tricky one.  


It goes without saying that everything I have noted above is anecdotal - the strategies and methods that have personally helped me with what would have otherwise been a devastating interruption in my life.  
If you are a migraine sufferer, I strongly suggest that in addition to trying out the tricks I have listed above, you check in with your general practitioner to discuss the best course of action for you.  

Migraines can be a huge pain, but they haven't stopped me from striving to live the happy and healthy life I want to live.  For migraine sufferers and for those who know someone suffering from migraines, I hope that this post has been helpful.

Please feel free to reach out to me if you'd like to discuss any migraine problems in more depth.  And remember - you are not alone!

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

101 Timeless Life Lessons

Are your brains feeling healthier after last week's post about Gandhi's life tips?  Are you ready for some more inspiring brain food?  Awesome!

The good people at Marc & Angel Hack Life have put together a phenomenal list of 101 timeless life lessons.

I've included my personal favorites from the list below, but please click on the link at the end of the post to read them all - they're definitely all worth it.


1. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it.

12. Loving someone isn’t just about saying it every day, it’s showing it every day in every way.

21. The path to our destination is not always a straight one.  We go down the wrong one, we get lost, and we turn back.  But maybe it doesn’t matter which road we embark on.  Maybe what matters is that we embark. (This could be a mantra for this blog, actually!)

23. Knowing yourself is one thing, but truly believing and living as yourself is another.  With so much social conditioning in our society, we sometimes forget who we are.

26. Tell the negativity committee that meets inside your head to sit down and shut up.

28. Live in such a way that if someone decided to speak badly of you, no one would believe it.

30. Life is shorter than it often seems.  Sometimes we are only given a few minutes to be with the ones we love, and hundreds of hours to spend thinking of them.  Cherish the moments you have with your friends and family, because in one single second they can be taken away from you forever.

31. Things change, but the sun always rises the next day.  The bad news: nothing is permanent.  The good news: nothing is permanent.

32. It’s your road, and yours alone.  Others may walk it with you, but no one can walk it for you.

48. Life is not about making others happy.  Life is about sharing your happiness with others.

59.Let the constant growth and improvement in your own life keep you so busy that you have no time left to criticize others.

60. When you try to control everything, you enjoy nothing.  Go for long walks.  Indulge in great conversations.  Question your assumptions.  Love yourself.  Pay attention to the moment.  Be a little crazy.  Count your blessings.  Let go for a little while and just be.

64. Being happy doesn’t always make us grateful, but being grateful will always make us happy.

65. Smile every chance you get; not because life has been easy, perfect, or exactly as you had anticipated, but because you choose to be happy and grateful for all the good things you do have and all the problems you know you don’t have.

67. If you’re finding it hard to be grateful for anything, sit down close your eyes and take a long slow breath and be grateful for oxygen.  Every breath you take is in sync with someone’s last.

77. Everyone says love hurts, but that’s not true.  Loneliness hurts.  Rejection hurts.  Losing someone hurts.  Envy hurts.  Everyone gets these things confused with love; but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all pain and makes someone feel wonderful again.  Love is the one thing in this world that does not hurt.

78. Real friendship is a promise made in the heart.  Silent.  Unwritten.  Unbreakable by distance.  Unchangeable by time.

82. Sometimes we expect more from others because we would be willing to do that much for them.

85. Most of the time happiness doesn’t come from money or fame or power; it comes from good friends and family, and from the quiet nobility of leading a good life.

98. One of the greatest freedoms is truly not caring what everyone else thinks of you.

101. Sometimes you have to stop worrying, wondering, and doubting.  Have faith that things will work out, maybe not how you planned, but just how it’s meant to be.

Click here to check out the list in its entirety.


Aren't there some wonderful life mantras you can take with you from this list?

All of them are amazing, and have given me some great inspiration to keep me going this week.  I hope the same for you!

Have a wonderful day, everyone!

Thursday, May 10, 2012

Living Like Gandhi

It's been a while since I've focused on health for the mind, so I've decided to give my blog a little Gandhi love today.

MindBodyGreen, one of my favorite wellness blogs, recently posted a list of 10 Life Changing Tips Inspired by Gandhi.  They are amazing, inspiring, and definitely worth a read:

1. You Can Change the World
"Be the change that you wish to see in the world."

2. Think Positive
"A man is but the product of his thoughts. What he thinks, he becomes."

3. Cherish Life
"Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever."

4. Don't Give Up 
"First they ignore you, then they ridicule you, then they fight you, and then you win."

5. Practice Compassion
"An eye for an eye will only make the whole world blind."

6. Live In Harmony 
"Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony."

7. Forgive
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong."

8. Meditate
"I have so much to accomplish today that I must meditate for two hours instead of one."

9. Serve Others
"The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others."

10. Live Life To The Fullest
"In a gentle way, you can shake the world."

Gandhi's whole principle of living was based off of the idea that humankind is inherently good.  Isn't that a wonderful, optimistic way to view the world?  I love it because it inspires me to see the good in the everyday.  I hope it will inspire you, too!!

Check out the whole article from MindBodyGreen here.

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Chronicles of Him and Her

The "her" of Chronicles of Him and Her!
One of my best friends in the whole world has an amazing blog that I'd love for you all to check out!  Her name is Valerie and her blog is called chronicles of him and her.

She originally hails from Virginia (holler!), but now she's living it up Texas-style with her hubby in the great city of Houston.  

Her blog is full of fashion tips, healthy advice, and day-to-day on what it's like to live an adorable Texas life.  For example:

She makes amazing healthy recipes, like salmon, chipotle shrimp tacoschicken souvlakimarinated shrimp, and white chicken chili.

She finds fun ways to keep her body in shape, like doing crossfit and taking plenty of long walks.

She offers inspiration to keep your mind in tip-top shape, like these warm and fuzzies and these sayings to live by.

She appreciates the little things.

She gives great body-care tips, like her skin care routine and revealing her favorite hair products.

She is an amazing hostess, and Bracks and I had the best time visiting her and her hubby.

Oh, and she has the most darling little puppy named Charlotte.  

She's an amazing woman, and I'm proud to call her one of my besties.  Please check out her website, and give her some love! 
love for valgal!

Friday, April 20, 2012

Get Bizzy Reading

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A good friend of mine recently pointed out to me that she was surprised that I hadn't mentioned any books on my blog yet.  I am an avid reader, and I usually have five or six going at once (nerd alert!).  It's been (and continues to be) a big part of my intellectual development, and since we're all about health and wellness of the body and mind here, it certainly fits the bill!

There is now a tab at the top of this blog that will lead you to an ever-expanding list of my favorite recommendations.  Check it out!

On a related note, what do you all think about having an online book club via this blog?  Let me know your thoughts in the comments.

Have a wonderful weekend!


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Monday, April 9, 2012

Monday Afternoon Links ~ 4.9.12

Here are the health links that have my mind and body buzzing this week:

10 Overrated Health Foods
Some literal food for thought.  I don't agree with everything she says, but it's great to have a devil's advocate every once in a while.

25 Photo-Illustrated Reminders to Help You Find Happiness
Marc and Angel Hack Life has the most amazing list posts.  This is one of them.  The photos look like something that belongs on an "inspirational" board on Pinterest.

28 Ways to Boost Energy Instantly
Learn how to tackle the afternoon slump organically.

50 Ways to Nurture Your Happiness
Another Marc and Angel Hack Life post.  Very inspiring.

Find a "Comfort Food" for Your Mind
A brilliant take on how to beat the blues.  My current "comfort food" has to be re-runs of The Simpsons or How I Met Your Mother.

Focus On: Weight Watchers
A 101 guide to the program that is helping me change my lifestyle.

The Hunger Games Guide to Survival
A creative post on a very topical subject.  I love me some HG !

Tippy Toe Diet's Top Ten Favorite Quotes
Some inspiration for my workouts this week.

Workout Mistakes Most Women Make
Enlightening.  I have a ways to go.

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Find all of the links mentioned in posts here (also permanently linked as a tab at the top of the site).